Time is transient, yet we only seem to be faced with its transience toward the end of life. Time only seems like it’s “running out” when we’re older. Or when our health is in-question. And certainly not during leisure. During leisure activities is one of the flow states where time seems to disappear.
Robert E. Park and American sociologist once wrote, “It is in the irresponsible use of our leisure, I suspect, that the greatest wastes of human life occur”.
The tremendous leisure industry that has arisen in the last few generations has been designed to help fill free time with enjoyable experiences.
But, instead of using our physical and mental resources to experience productive enjoyment, most of us spend many hours each week watching celebrated athletes playing in enormous stadiums.
Instead of making music, we listen to platinum records cut by millionaire musicians. Instead of making art, we go to admire age old paintings that literally have no value but brought in the highest bids at the auction.
We do not run risks acting on our beliefs, but occupy hours each day watching actors who pretend to have adventures, engaged in mock-meaningful action.
This indirect participation is able to mask, at least temporarily, the underlying emptiness of wasted time. But it is a very pale substitute for attention invested in real challenges.
The flow experience that results from the use of skills leads to growth; passive entertainment leads nowhere.
Collectively we are wasting each year the equivalent of millions of years of human consciousness.
The energy that could be used to focus on complex goals, to provide for enjoyable growth, is squandered on patterns of stimulation that only mimic reality.
Mass leisure, mass culture, and even high culture when only attended to passively and for extrinsic reasons—such as the wish to flaunt one’s status—are parasites of the mind. They absorb psychic energy without providing substantive strength in return. They leave us more exhausted, more disheartened than we were before.
Unless a person takes charge of them, both work and free time are likely to be disappointing.
Most jobs and many leisure activities—especially those involving the passive consumption of mass media—are not designed to make us happy and strong. Their purpose is to make money for someone else.
If we allow them to, they can suck out the marrow of our lives, leaving only feeble husks. But like everything else, work and leisure can be appropriated for our needs.
People who learn to enjoy their work, who do not waste their free time end up feeling that their lives as a whole have become much more worthwhile.
“The future will belong not only to the educated man, but to the man who is educated to use his leisure wisely”C. K. Brightbill